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Father Michael Madden, Whistle-blower, Leaves Darien Parish and Priesthood
The Darien (CT) Times ^ | August 31, 2006 | Susan Schultz

Posted on 09/01/2006 7:19:51 AM PDT by TaxachusettsMan

Rev. Michael Madden, who was responsible for hiring the private investigator that revealed financial improprieties by the church’s pastor, Rev. Michael Jude Fay, announced Tuesday that he is leaving St. John Parish and the priesthood.

Father Fay’s misconduct may have resulted in a loss of $1.4 million to the parish . . .

Father Madden said throughout his priesthood, and the last four years at St. John, he did his very best to serve the people of his parishes. However, the strain of the last years at St. John and especially the last few months, have proved to be too much for him, he said.

Father Madden said when he and bookkeeper Bethany D’Erario decided to hire a private investigator to research the financial misconduct of Father Fay with their own money (he declined to specify the cost), he had no idea the diocese would react with the severity that it did.

“I did not think that I was betraying the diocese by hiring the private investigator,” he said.

Bishop William E. Lori, head of the Diocese of Bridgeport, publicly denounced the hiring of the private investigator . . . The diocese sent out a press release with an apology from Father Madden for his actions, and at a meeting with parishioners, who voiced support for Father Madden, the bishop stated that the priest had gone behind the diocese’s back.

Father Madden said he is not sorry for hiring the private investigator and that he felt it was the right thing to do in light of Father Fay’s alleged continuous financial misconduct. Any inappropriate relationships that Father Fay may or may not have had (he was allegedly involved in a homosexual relationship while serving as pastor) were not the priority, according to Father Madden.

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1 posted on 09/01/2006 7:19:52 AM PDT by TaxachusettsMan
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To: TaxachusettsMan
(1) Fr. Fay should get what's coming to him.

(2) One priest hiring a PI to investigate another priest he is having a personal dispute with is a bad idea, and Fr. Madden was correctly disciplined for doing that.

(3) I question the seriousness of Fr. Madden's vocation and the seriousness of his Christian profession if he is deciding to abandon his parishioners because of a financial dispute.

"Shepherds" like that we don't need.

2 posted on 09/01/2006 7:48:37 AM PDT by wideawake ("The nation which forgets its defenders will itself be forgotten." - Calvin Coolidge)
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To: wideawake

You may be unaware of a few facts. Fr. Madden went to the diocese first and did not get any support or action. Bishop Lori admits that he cut Fr. Fey slack because he was having health problems. Fr. Madden only went outside the "chain of command" after it failed him and his parishoners. Would you have the same opinion of a priest who took action on his own if the concern had been child molestation?


3 posted on 09/01/2006 8:02:09 AM PDT by Regina (regina)
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To: TaxachusettsMan

This is very sad, it really shows how someone getting their neck stepped on can kill their Vocation.

I think too many people realize how fragile a Vocation can often be and how easy it is for a Bishop to kill it (just look at the poor Vocation rates in some Diocese).

Maybe he'll come back one of these days. I know Fr. Groeschel is involved in ministry to guys like him.


4 posted on 09/01/2006 8:03:27 AM PDT by Cheverus
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To: Regina
Fr. Madden went to the diocese first and did not get any support or action.

I'm sure he didn't.

He had two further options: (1) going over the ordinary's head to the bishop's conference and if that fell through (2) reporting Fr. Fay to the police.

Bishop Lori admits that he cut Fr. Fey slack because he was having health problems.

Not surprising. These guys all develop health problems as soon as this stuff arises.

Fr. Madden only went outside the "chain of command" after it failed him and his parishoners.

He didn't follow the chain of command any further than one link. And as a result, he failed his parishioners and has apparently decided to abandon them.

Would you have the same opinion of a priest who took action on his own if the concern had been child molestation?

Absolutely. If he suspected a fellow priest of such crimes, he should have reported his suspicions to the police immediately - not hired a private investigator.

5 posted on 09/01/2006 8:10:19 AM PDT by wideawake ("The nation which forgets its defenders will itself be forgotten." - Calvin Coolidge)
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To: wideawake
First let me tell you that I live in this diocese. I have a lot of respect for Bishop Lori and his leadership; but he really dropped the ball on this one. This was not simply a criminal issue of stealing or misuse of parish funds. That was only one aspect. Fr. Fey's entire lifestyle was in complete conflict with what a priests life is supposed to be; exhibit one would be an article in a Philadelphia-area gay magazine in which Fr. Fey (not identified as a priest) and his "companion" give their opinion on the most romantic restaurant in the area. Fr. Fey was scandalizing the Church and his flock. Going to the police about the parish funds is in effect "going public". At least the results of a private investigation could have been used to quietly get the diocese to acknowledge the problems and do something.
6 posted on 09/01/2006 8:37:36 AM PDT by Regina (regina)
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To: Regina

Thanks for this additional information.


7 posted on 09/01/2006 8:53:49 AM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Regina

Additional light in a place of darkness. Sounds like the bishop should go bye-bye and not let the door hit him on the way out.


8 posted on 09/01/2006 8:55:24 AM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Salvation
Once Bishop Lori knew the extent of the problem, he reacted quickly and with total transparency. He communicated directly with the parishioners in person and did not attempt to keep information from the public sphere. I think he learned a tough lesson and will be a better administrator for having gone through this. I hope he has a long career here in Connecticut.
9 posted on 09/01/2006 9:01:38 AM PDT by Regina (regina)
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To: wideawake; TaxachusettsMan; Regina
I question the seriousness of Fr. Madden's vocation and the seriousness of his Christian profession if he is deciding to abandon his parishioners because of a financial dispute.

My thought, as well. Why not ask to be incardinated to another diocese?

10 posted on 09/01/2006 10:12:34 AM PDT by NYer ("That which is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor. That is the whole Torah." Hillel)
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To: wideawake

I question the seriousness of the Catholic church to want evil exposed.

And I praise Father Madden for being a good shephard. Don't bow down to evil - either fight it and/or walk away from it.


11 posted on 09/01/2006 4:07:28 PM PDT by presently no screen name
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To: presently no screen name

I think he did the right thing too. Exposed it but quietly. The priest he exposed is disgusting. That the Diocese did nothing is disgusting too. I hope he finds a great place to minister; courageous men like him are sorely needed in all walks of life. Always.


12 posted on 09/02/2006 7:10:19 PM PDT by bboop (Stealth Tutor)
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To: bboop

To bboop and all responders: I've known Fr. Madden for many years. His decision to leave was agonizing. The episode in Darien was the cap on his decision, not a flight of fancy. The Diocese of Bridgeport has many, many problems, and they are losing many good priests who view their vocation AS a vocation, not as a career where they climb the corporate ladder. Fr. Madden is not the first, and he won't be the last, unfortunately.


13 posted on 09/02/2006 8:11:21 PM PDT by friendofthefamily
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To: bboop
courageous men like him are sorely needed in all walks of life

So true! I hope this 'doing good while publicly denounced for hiring of the private investigator . . . The diocese sent out a press release with an apology from Father Madden for his actions" situation doesn't damper his courageous spirit in exposing evil.

Can you imagine "PC" is more important to the church than "JC" and His "expose evil" teaching.

In essence, robbing from the parishioners is OK, letting them know is publicly denounced and requires an apology. Truly a liberal PC mindset and opposite of God's Word.
14 posted on 09/02/2006 8:19:23 PM PDT by presently no screen name
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To: friendofthefamily

You've known him? Well, tell him we're behind him all the way. And the Lord, of course, will be pleased. But not to leave the church -- we need good men like him.


15 posted on 09/03/2006 6:00:21 AM PDT by bboop (Stealth Tutor)
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To: wideawake
I am sorry wideawake but you and many of the posters here on the forum don't know Father Madden or the circumstances and persecution that he and other good Priests face in this Diocese. Fay is a creation of Cardinal Egan who was Lori's predecessor. Concerned people including Father Madden reported Fay's malfeasance repeatedly over the past 15 years. Lori failed to move or even respond to this issue until Madden confronted him but he left Fay as pastor after his first interview with him after summoning he back from the arms of his “Wedding Planner” close friend.

He was forced out only after the private investigator hired who was hired by the Book Keeper and who Father Madden only offered to assist her pay for him, went public.

Fay is flamboyantly and obviously a homosexual and living above his means for 15 years and although he was the pastor of a parish with one of the most affluent congregation in Connecticut he failed to pay the dioceses its Diocesan allotment for over 3 years without examination.

Lori and his lavender mafia associates is an evil liar and fraud.

Read Father Madden’s work at http://www.faithfront.org/archive.htm and judge him more fairly and accurately.

Rufus Choate.
16 posted on 09/03/2006 10:44:10 AM PDT by Rufus Choate
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To: Rufus Choate
(1) I asserted above that Fay deserves to get his just deserts. I have no brief for him.

(2) I agree that the ordinary did nothing and was completely derelict.

(3) None of this derogates from the fact that (a) it is a bad precedent for priests to start hiring PIs to investigate other priests and (b) abandoning one's parishioners and the ministry because one's ordinary is incompetent is a selfish act.

A priest's primary responsibility is to provide the faithful with the sacraments. All else is subordinate to that responsibility and the only excuse for abandoning it is juridical loss of jurisdiction or catastrophic physical disability.

17 posted on 09/05/2006 4:41:59 AM PDT by wideawake ("The nation which forgets its defenders will itself be forgotten." - Calvin Coolidge)
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To: Regina

Regardless of whether or not it was right for Bishop Lori to discipline Fr. Madden, that doesn't justify Fr. Madden's decision to leave the priesthood. Nor should we blame the bishop for this man's free choice to leave the priesthood. There is nothing even remotely noble about his decision to abandon his vocation. Remaining faithful to his vocation would have been the noble course of action.


18 posted on 09/05/2006 4:52:18 AM PDT by steadfastconservative
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To: steadfastconservative

I knew Fr. Madden personally. He was a parochial vicar at two of the parishes where my family and I had been parishioners. (We switched parishes because my children went to Catholic school in our new parish) I can not believe that Fr. Madden acted out of any malice or in this case acted with out proper reflection and prayer. The Diocese of Bridgeport has been infested with priestly abuses by many. You do not know what Fr. Madden went through in taking this step. I pray for Mike Madden and can only imagine his pain in realizing that he could not continue in his vocation. Do not judge if you have not been in his shoes


19 posted on 04/02/2013 8:16:22 PM PDT by PattiMcG
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