I would tend to agree that we're never going to understand each other on this so all I can do is restate my position that God's will is what happens because He is an omnipotent and sovereign God. Apparently contrary to your position, man does not have the power to overcome God's will through his choices. The wages of sin is death, so man is responsible for his own sin. God cannot be blamed for man's sin, no matter how much you say I think so. Under my view, God retains control, which is one area in which we differ.
No Sir. God retains control, but we still have freedom of will. Jo kus tried, unsuccessfully I see, to point out to you that God transcends time and that He knows all the decisions we make, good and evil, past, present and future, of all the people in the world, who lived, live and will live, as happening all at once and integrates them into His plan -- if that doesn't speak volumes of His omnipotence I don't know what does!