I won't go into your theology, AG, or your newly found salvation in Calvin's man-made "church," but I will remind you, as you triumph in His love for you, that your Calvinsit friends believe that God equally makes others suffer and that there are those who came to the realization that the same loving God made them so they would perish and burn in hell for all eternity.
And, as far as my theology goes, I only know this, I want to live the years that remain in my life in peace with God, and my fellow man.