As far as my anger at the church, you must ability that your mind reading prowess is not 100% accurate. I'm not angry at the church. I'm angry at the ignorant rhetoric one finds on this thread and the lame attempt to counter, when the ignorance is pointed out.
If your going to continue ignoring what I say and making up my position, then argue both sides and make up the replies.
I took that to be a reference to the homosexual abuse scandals, if I was wrong I apologize.
Paul repeatedly wrote of the ideal of celibacy, there is every reason to look for this ideal in our clergy. What's next after married priests? Will homosexuals in "civil unions" be agreeable? Where do we stop the descent?
If someone wants to be married and enter the clergy, there are plenty of denominations that would be happy to accept him.