You've probably been well-insulated from it all then. About a quarter-century ago my eyes were opened upon attending our liberal diocese's convention. When we moved to an even worse diocese, I really had no choice but to leave. Although, or because, I paid little attention to the Episcopal church after that (at first out of necessity, then because I was focused on our Continuing church), this came as a shock to me too.
Right; I'm in the West Texas Diocese, and most people out here are staunchly conservative. We continue to watch events in the Northeat with total amazement, shock, and disbelief.
Don't get me wrong: None of us is crazy-wild anti-gay or anything like that, and we would pray for and even accept gays in our parish. But if communion were to be administered by a gay priest or bishop, I would sit it out.