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Sex and the 'glamour' girl (And The Aftermath)
TownHall.com ^ | 8/27/03 | Brent Bozell

Posted on 08/27/2003 12:25:34 AM PDT by kattracks

We know the ideal of sexual purity and a clarion call for abstinence are seen by Hollywood as quaint. In some Tinseltown circles it's even dangerous. Miramax recently released another in a series of Catholic-bashing movies, "The Magdalene Sisters," which takes the regrettable story of Ireland's Magdalene laundries, where young women who were sexually active, pregnant or even just too flirty were consigned to hard labor. Predictably, the movie turns it all into a broad-brushed propagandistic vision of a church pulsing with pure evil.

That is hardly the cultural predicament for young American women today. They not only are encouraged to be sexual by their male contemporaries, they are also heartily encouraged by women and women's media to rid themselves of purity.

The Chicago Tribune reported that the trendiness of HBO's "Sex in the City," as personified by Sarah Jessica Parker's cool booty-call chronicler, has resulted in a new sensation: "Sex columnists are as routine at college campuses as midterms." For example, the Tribune told the story of Julia Baugher, who writes a sex-advice column for the Hoya, the student newspaper at Jesuit-run Georgetown University. Her advice to the college audience: Get some sex.

Julia encourages incoming freshmen females to dump their distant boyfriends for some sex play away from the constraints of home: "If you left a high-school honey to come to college, don't spend your time hanging on to what's back home. You'll miss out on the fun of your new place, only to break up by February anyway." She suggests that if girls don't have a relationship, they ought not "go nuts," since "you don't want a bad reputation stalking you for the next four years." In other words, the only limits on a lady's "liberation" is her vulnerability to gossip. Even in Catholic corners of the culture, the notion of God sometimes seems to have disappeared.

In the September issue of Glamour magazine (circulation: almost 3 million, many of them teenage girls), actress Holly Robinson Peete gives this advice to the single girl: "You are in a blissful stage. Really enjoy yourself right now because it does change. I want you to have a lot of sex and get a lot of sleep."

But that's not the worst of it. This edition of Glamour also contains advice if that sex goes wrong and she accidentally becomes pregnant. It is, incredibly, this: You can not only get an abortion, but you can feel good about yourself while you do it. A group of abortion clinic operators calling themselves the "November Gang" is encouraging their customers to write little valentines on pink paper hearts to the babies they've killed.

Glamour finds it "poignant" that one woman wrote to her victim: "To my little angel, Please understand that you are better off in the hands of God than mine at this moment." (This is hard to debate.) "I smile when I think of you, even if I cry. You have given me reason to be strong and wise and responsible. You will always be my baby. I will see you in heaven, sweetheart. Love you! Love always and unconditionally, your mommy."

The hearts are posted in one Pittsburgh clinic, "rows and rows of them taped to the walls." Some are more fist-pumping feminist notes, such as: "Women: this is your life and your body. What you think is right ... Is! ... And if you think this is a 'sin,' remember, God forgives!" Glamour reported that counselors push this notion hard to the more religious girls. When one girl says she goes to church every Sunday, the counselor asks, "Do you think there are any things God considers completely unforgivable?" The clinics also invite more religious girls to "pray over their fetuses, even to sprinkle them with holy water in impromptu baptismal rites."

Even abortionists are conceding the "fetus" is a child of God; it's just a child of God they have the right to kill. Women can be forgiven for abortions, but that requires real regret and repentance, not paper valentines and happy talk. Abortion advocates also disdain this approach. The Glamour article mentioned that "mainstream abortion rights proponents don't think such candor is helpful." Kate Michelman of NARAL protests that it's not her job to "wear every woman's feelings publicly."

In today's culture we condemn women's magazines for encouraging girls to obsess about their appearance, their weight and the happiness that comes only from cosmetic products like "deep thermal refinisher." I'm waiting for the rebuke of these magazines for encouraging girls to indulge in sex without consequences, and when the consequences arrive, encouraging them to butcher them, then air-kiss them with a ridiculous love note.

Brent Bozell is President of Media Research Center, a TownHall.com member group.

©2003 Creators Syndicate, Inc.

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1 posted on 08/27/2003 12:25:34 AM PDT by kattracks
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To: kattracks
"Sex is exciting, abstinence is boring." Thus the view from Tinseltown in the 21st Century.
2 posted on 08/27/2003 12:33:04 AM PDT by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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To: kattracks
...rows and rows of them taped to the walls...

The world gone insane.

3 posted on 08/27/2003 12:54:58 AM PDT by Dr. Eckleburg (There are very few shades of gray.)
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To: kattracks
I did some disgusting research this past weekend,
and rented the "American Pie" series so popular among teens. I really wanted some insight, but ended
up just feeling sick.

After watching these 'teen classics' I finally understand why abortion is so popular. It's beyond sad.
4 posted on 08/27/2003 12:58:10 AM PDT by b9
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To: goldstategop
As semi-conscious Al Franken said, "Abstinence is good; teaching abstinence in school is bad."

How do kids learn it, Al, if they're never taught it?

5 posted on 08/27/2003 12:58:28 AM PDT by Dr. Eckleburg (There are very few shades of gray.)
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To: kattracks
You will always be my baby. I will see you in heaven, sweetheart.

Uhh, I wouldn't bet on that....
6 posted on 08/27/2003 1:18:37 AM PDT by Kozak (" No mans life liberty or property is safe when the legislature is in session." Mark Twain)
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To: kattracks
You can not only get an abortion, but you can feel good about yourself while you do it. A group of abortion clinic operators calling themselves the "November Gang" is encouraging their customers to write little valentines on pink paper hearts to the babies they've killed.

The American Feminist Movement: Turning our beloved, precious daughters into absolute ghouls...

What? You got a problem with that?

7 posted on 08/27/2003 2:27:04 AM PDT by Caipirabob (Democrats.. Socialists..Commies..Traitors...Who can tell the difference?)
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To: Caipirabob
A group of abortion clinic operators calling themselves the "November Gang" is encouraging their customers to write little valentines on pink paper hearts to the babies they've killed.

There are abortuaries here in LA that offer discount coupons for repeat visits.

8 posted on 08/27/2003 2:38:00 AM PDT by Roscoe
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To: doodlelady
My employer shares an office building with Planned Parent Hood. I watch all those kids come and go all day long. (Some on bicycles). Just breaks my heart. Another thing I've noticed, blacks do not patronize PPH in our community.
9 posted on 08/27/2003 2:58:16 AM PDT by raisincane
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To: kattracks
> You can not only get an abortion, but you can feel good about yourself while you do it. A group of abortion clinic operators calling themselves the "November Gang" is encouraging their customers to write little valentines on pink paper hearts to the babies they've killed.

>What you think is right ... Is! ... And if you think this is a 'sin,' remember, God forgives!"


"The god of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelieving, that they might not see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ" 1Cor. 4.

You can actually see the veil of untruth covering these peoples' eyes, deceiving them. God does forgive, but we often must live with consequences. Such is the danger of telling half-truths to our youth:

"but whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to stumble, it is better for him that a heavy millstone be hung around his neck, and that he be drowned in the depth of the sea." - Mat 18
10 posted on 08/27/2003 3:38:56 AM PDT by Paul_B
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To: doodlelady
Hey, just take a look at where fashion has gone for girls these days.

I'm a father of two young girls. Is it appropriate for pre-schoolers to wear hip-huggers and midsection-baring shirts?

Absolutely not.

But that's what's being sold as "back to school" clothing at our local department stores -- IN THE LITTLE KID section!

11 posted on 08/27/2003 3:41:37 AM PDT by AlaninSA (Minnesota Golden Gophers...2002/2003 NCAA Hockey champs! Back to Back!)
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To: kattracks
We have become a nation of murderers.

I have said for many years (not that I have an audience of any kind) that the pro-life movement had shown that a pre-born baby was a human life. But the argument we were unprepared to confront which was coming next was, "Yes, it's a human life, so what?"

I think this may be even a step further than that!
12 posted on 08/27/2003 4:28:41 AM PDT by aardvark1
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To: kattracks
"Poignant"?
Glamour finds it "poignant" that one woman wrote to her victim: "To my little angel, Please understand that you are better off in the hands of God than mine at this moment." (This is hard to debate.) "I smile when I think of you, even if I cry. You have given me reason to be strong and wise and responsible. You will always be my baby. I will see you in heaven, sweetheart. Love you! Love always and unconditionally, your mommy."
Sick.

Seems the baby killers have finally admitted to it.

13 posted on 08/27/2003 4:46:24 AM PDT by nicollo
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To: Paul_B
Jer 2:29-35
29 "Why will you plead with Me? You all have transgressed against Me," says the LORD.
30 "In vain I have chastened your children; they received no correction. Your sword has devoured your prophets like a destroying lion.
31 "O generation, see the word of the LORD! Have I been a wilderness to Israel, or a land of darkness? Why do My people say, 'We are lords; we will come no more to You'?
32 Can a virgin forget her ornaments, or a bride her attire? Yet My people have forgotten Me days without number.
33 "Why do you beautify your way to seek love? Therefore you have also taught the wicked women your ways.
34 Also on your skirts is found the blood of the lives of the poor innocents. I have not found it by secret search, but plainly on all these things.
35 Yet you say, 'Because I am innocent, surely His anger shall turn from me.' Behold, I will plead My case against you, because you say, 'I have not sinned.'
(NKJ)

just terribly sad

14 posted on 08/27/2003 4:55:27 AM PDT by the-ironically-named-proverbs2
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To: Dr. Eckleburg
ping
15 posted on 08/27/2003 5:05:13 AM PDT by xzins (In the Beginning was the Word)
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To: kattracks
"Glamour finds it "poignant" that one woman wrote to her victim: "To my little angel, Please understand that you are better off in the hands of God than mine at this moment." (This is hard to debate.) "I smile when I think of you, even if I cry. You have given me reason to be strong and wise and responsible. You will always be my baby. I will see you in heaven, sweetheart. Love you! Love always and unconditionally, your mommy." "

Trying to justify killing their unborn will haunt these women for the rest of their lives.
16 posted on 08/27/2003 5:09:08 AM PDT by Rebelbase
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To: Polycarp; Coleus; Loyalist; NYer; Salvation; ThomasMore; sinkspur; ultima ratio; Maximilian; ...
Oh this is sick.

Guys (and gals), maybe you want to pop over here briefly for an update on American "culture".
17 posted on 08/27/2003 5:16:54 AM PDT by Hermann the Cherusker
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To: raisincane
Why not? Margaret Sanger, the founder of PPH had a special welcome for them. See other articles on FR about eugenics and PPH and also The Negro Project, one of PPH's main goals.
18 posted on 08/27/2003 5:30:28 AM PDT by 17th Miss Regt
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To: Dr. Eckleburg
Hopefully PARENTS take responsibility for setting standards?

I do.

Of course, I know I am in the minority. LOL!

Tia

19 posted on 08/27/2003 5:38:55 AM PDT by tiamat ("Just a Bronze-Age Gal, Trapped in a Techno World!")
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To: AlaninSA
AlaninSA wrote:

Hey, just take a look at where fashion has gone for girls these days. I'm a father of two young girls. Is it appropriate for pre-schoolers to wear hip-huggers and midsection-baring shirts? Absolutely not. But that's what's being sold as "back to school" clothing at our local department stores -- IN THE LITTLE KID section!

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The department store are messed up, and are selling to the Liberal Elite.

I shop at places like Khol's and Target and Walmart for my daughter.

There is no shortage of t-shirts WITHOUT provacative sayings, jeans that are NOT "low-rise" , capri pants and cute peasant tops that do NOT expose the tummy.

I get my girl all sorts of cute , comfy modest clothing and pay a fraction of the cost.

You just gotta know where to shop!

Good Luck to you!

Tia

20 posted on 08/27/2003 5:44:52 AM PDT by tiamat ("Just a Bronze-Age Gal, Trapped in a Techno World!")
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