[Cathryn Crawford]

Most women tell their friends that they want a sensitive, caring guy with highlights; but what they really want is a man to take care of them.

Don't jump on me, girls!

Taking care of a woman doesn't necessarily mean jumping all over them or holding them back. It means esteeming her more than you do yourself; it means being there for her; it means kicking butt for her if that's what's required; it means taking care of your children; it means honoring her, respecting her.

That's what women want, not some sappy manicured pansy with a blowout.

[Atchafalaya]

Hey chere, worked for me. Married 26 yrs, shouted my vows at the wedding for all to hear, 3 kids, we both work, housework, yardwork, wash clothes, cook, ...et al. She is my and I am her's best friend; the rest comes naturally. No relationship will survive if it is one sided. I'm a lucky man.