To: hellinahandcart
So he finds a woman who's willing to wait for marriage, but HE isn't willing to commit after dating and abstaining for six months.I usually advise my friend to date for a year before getting engaged.
220 posted on
06/15/2003 2:39:21 PM PDT by
Poohbah
(I must be all here, because I'm not all there!)
To: Poohbah
I never said they should get engaged (formally) after six months, but she needed assurance that they weren't going to be Friends Forever and that all the abstaining would be to a purpose, someday.
He couldn't give her that, and probably should have known his feelings weren't equal to hers a lot earlier on.
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