[Henrietta]

Women who do this sort of crap to men should rot in jail. Their children can be adopted out to loving families.

[only1percent]

What needs to be investigated is the issue of how process is being served. If these guys >are< getting served but just ignore it, or throw away mail that they don't recognize, well, that's what default judgments are for. If parties or process servers are defrauding the courts, or the courts are granting default judgments without proof of service, than the default judgments can be reversed without getting into the substance of the issue at all.

There are many good reasons why DNA tests should not be the be-all and end-all of proof of paternity and obligations of paternal support.

[lilylangtree]

This is an important legal and emotional issue and needs to be addressed. However, not everyone fits into the same category and so across-the-board answer won't do for all families. What's the one answer to fit all needs? Haven't the foggiest!