His is pretty clear, thing is you don't have to listen.
God doesn't have "pet-peeves'. People do.
God calls all sins...sin. Homosexuality, adultery, stealing, lying, gossip, greed, self-righteousness etc. etc..
Like I said. Jerry Falwell and the rest of those fat-fingered Pharisees picked out ONLY those sins which they harbor as their personal pet-peeves and decided 9-11 was God avenging them.
That is disgusting.
As you say, sin is sin. So what is wrong with dealing with one particular sin? You seem angry that Falwell mentioned homosexuality and not blasphemy.
I would be very careful about calling any Christian a Pharisee, you will be judged by your own judgments.
I suggest you deal with your anger towards certain brothers and recognize Jesus in them.