[speekinout]

All I was saying was to have the conversation with them. My stepmother wanted very much to be in a situation where she would have activities with peers all day. There's no way, even with adult day care, that we could have provided that from our house - esp. with working schedules.
If you're home all day, and can provide social activities for your parents, good for you.

[Aedammair]

My parents and I had that discussion a long time ago. They prefer to stay in their home until the end of their days, and I am determined to see to it that they get their wish.