I have been married to one woman for 39 years. She's still as attractive to me now as she was all those years ago. In all of those years I have tried to give her a guy wrenching orgasm every time we have had sex. I would say that I have been 99% successful.
Giving a woman an orgasm is not always easy and frequently turns into real work. The best kind of work a man can do. Many times the "big thing" with a lot of foreplay will do but there are other times when when you must use oral or manual methods. Without pleasing her I could never be satisfied.
If I left my wife unsatisfied I would feel that I might as well have gone in the closet and jacked off to a picture of Hillary Clinton.
Dude, couldn't you do it to playboy or something, thats just sick. LOL By the way folks, I didn't ask the question because my wife cheats on me, I have a wonderful sex life and relationship with my wife and yes, I give her that orgasm 99% of the time and its mostly through oral stimulation. I have a very talented tongue she says.