The main reason that I share my story on these divorce related threads is because I want people to hear the truth about what happens to real people and real children who live through real divorces. The results I've seen from my experience and from the experience of others is that it is wildly destructive to families and to our society as a whole. I've learned a lot of hard lessons in my life. One thing I've learned is that men can be very, very cruel to each other, but women have the capacity to take cruelty to extreme and dazzling heights. "Hell hath no fury..." and all that.
We as a society should make marriage a lot harder to get into and a lot harder to get out of, especially where children are involved.