im also a christian... (from your FR profile)
Matthew 5:44 But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you
You don't have to love the religion, just the people.
I went to the web site you had linked on your profile - not really a "Christian" type of band - are you sure you're a Christian? I'm not trying to be offensive, but if I end up offending I can live with that. The Bible tells us "Examine yourselves as to whether you are in the faith." (1 Corinthians 13:5) If you need help figuring out if you are or not, try here to get started.
If you're still not sure, feel free to send reply (or send a private reply, if you prefer) if you have questions. If you determine that you definitely are a Christian, then do this:
... whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things. - Philippians 4:8
(That music you like doesn't fit this description)
And love your enemies.
P.S. - I'm assuming at 19 you are out of high school - that doesn't mean you can forget all of the things your English teachers taught you.