You are speaking the truth.
Because of my personal experience with my son, I am furious with the doctors. My son, whose body produced growth hormone but didn’t utilize it, and the same for testosterone, he needed both in order to develop correctly.
I have always wondered why they are introducing cross-sex hormones instead of same sex hormones as my son was given. What is wrong with trying that first? Wouldn’t that be closer to “do no harm”?
What they do now is, like you said, almost always irreversible. It really really bothers me.
These doctors and medical providers should be introduced to a firing squad.
Now there are three of us!