Doesn’t parental actions like these border on “Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy”?
https://www.verywellmind.com/munchausen-by-proxy-5071840
Jesse Kelly had some disturbing audio from a mother abusing her daughter here (starts at about 4:25 in): https://www.iheart.com/podcast/390-the-jesse-kelly-sho-29962174/episode/hour-1-trans-athletes-114333888/
Crazy.
Also this.
Call it what it is.
Body Integrity Identity Disorder (BIID) https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19132621/
What is apotemnophilia?
Abstract. Background: The syndrome of apotemnophilia, body integrity or amputee identity disorder, is defined as the desire for amputation of a healthy limb, and may be accompanied by behaviour of pretending to be an amputee and sometimes, but not necessarily, by sexual arousal.