Take some Rogaine and put it on your bald assertions.
Listen, you have just admitted that heinous things were done to the Russians in Donbas. What should have been the reaction? What the US did after 9/11? Russia’s problem is that it failed to use A-stan as a vehicle to impose cost and maximize the American casualties but stupidly supported and assisted the whole thing on the side of the US.
After Ukraine thing more than 80% of Russians hate the US and it is not going away for at least two generations. That was never the case before. At peak of Cold War there was understanding that there are rival systems and only 4% registered the negative attitude. Now they just don’t understand why do you want to undermine and kill them and want revenge.