You sound like fun! ;)
Yeah, I know.
Does not quite fit the image. :)
But both boys and girls in my class talk to me and one of the things that keeps coming up is that they feel very pressured into having what I would call joyless sex by adults and made to feel that there is something wrong with saying no to it.
I find myself in the very odd position of teaching young people that sex is fun but it is also special and should be done with your spouse.
This was not so much the case when I began teaching two decades ago. The second part yes but not that sex was not a chore to be gotten through when you are numb enough to endure it.
Occasionally I would run into with a girl, usually fatherless, who was using joyless sex as a way of gaining male approval.
But now I am seeing it in alarming numbers and among boys as well.
It is reminding me of Japan.
Something has changed and it is not good.