Grace is UNDESERVED favor. You can NEVER earn God's love which is the measure of your value.
If by grace, then is it no more of works: otherwise grace is no more grace. But if it be of works, then is it no more grace: otherwise work is no more work.Romans 11:6
But you seem to support this Women's Movement role versus value confusion. You should know better being the preacher of grace around here.