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How Our Mass Dishonor Of Elders Helps Destroy Society
The Federalist ^ | June 26, 2020 | Gavrielle Rodrigruez

Posted on 06/26/2020 11:17:29 AM PDT by Kaslin

We must re-acknowledge and respect the role of parents and the wisdom of elders so that we can affect authentic, lasting, positive change in our society.>


The 1950s brought programming to America’s living rooms that revered parents, especially fathers, in TV shows like “Father Knows Best,” “Make Room for Daddy,” and “Ozzie and Harriet.” The same decade simultaneously engineered the American teenager, ushered in the exaltation of “youth culture” in music and film, and eroded the reverence of parents and elders.

Over the last 70 years, the glorification of youth-centric culture has exacerbated the degradation of parental honor. Hollywood sought to portray parents as unsophisticated and antiquated in their perspectives, and the entertainment industry successfully communicated this through sophomoric plot narratives and imbecilic and self-interested parental characters.

The 1970s classic “All in the Family” depicts Archie Bunker, the traditional all-American father and husband, as a chauvinist and racist. His more open-minded and progressive family futilely attempts to “educate” him throughout the series.

Similarly, contemporary hits like “Shameless” have brought the media’s attack on parenthood full circle. The show tracks the story of patriarch and deadbeat father Frank Gallagher, who repeatedly abandons his family in search of booze and chicanery while his children fight for survival in South Side, Chicago, mirroring the degenerate behavior of their parents.

Although some of these storylines can be entertaining or humorous, the media has made a mockery of the common foresight possessed by parents and elders. In doing so, they have cultivated ridicule and irreverence towards the wisdom of elder generations. This altering of the public consciousness extends to the lack of value youth are now typically willing to place on the wisdom of those in seniority. In its place, society mindlessly extols and champions the ethos of adolescence, assigning equivalent value to the whims of youth, in contrast to the prudence of adulthood.

This shift is exemplified by the rapid anointing of Greta Thunberg as a climate change expert. Thunberg was trotted out by the United Nations (UN), at age 16, to give a speech condemning world leaders for their “self-serving” policies “wreaking havoc” on the climate. “You are still not mature enough to tell it like it is. You are failing us,” she scolded. In a climate protest in Germany earlier that year, Thunberg admonished adults further, “We are striking because we have done our homework, and they [those in authority] have not.”

Within hours of her speech at the UN in 2019, Thunberg was essentially ordained a global warming tsar. She swiftly began appearing on the cable news circuit and was even called upon as an expert for CNN’s coronavirus panel. Upon witnessing the media’s canonization of Thunberg, one cannot help but be reminded of the biblical admonition, “As for My people, children are their oppressors…Those who lead you cause you to err, and destroy the way of your paths.”

This is not a suggestion to silence the voice of youth, but a caution to place it in a proper context. Within rational bounds, adolescents should retain their freedom of expression. In some cases, they can indeed provide sincere insights their elders may not be able to see. A society, however, that comprehensively lionizes youthful hyperbole, and gleefully rejects the wisdom of age invites a perpetual revisitation of past failures.

Twenty-first century “woke” culture regards itself as the inclusive and enlightened generation, whose obligation it is to “educate” those in authority. The media and educational systems, in unison, have successfully conditioned the last four generations of Americans to assign little worth to our nation’s forbearers — especially those figures with past transgressions and a fallible nature.

This has yielded an all or nothing, zero-sum game that has become especially prevalent throughout the educational system. There is no need for nuance or to recognize the complexity of an issue. There is no desire, moreover, to examine and wrestle with the complexity of human nature, to realize absolute truth, and become a more evolved society.

It’s now deemed superfluous to learn from the mistakes of our elders and achieve a greater understanding of a matter. Instead, the past can be corrected and the future remedied by giving a reductive analysis of history and cultural affairs — hence, the voracious call for the removal of historical monuments.

The chaos and rioting that erupted nationwide after the death of George Floyd also exemplifies this. Floyd’s death was heartbreaking to watch, and those across the political spectrum were quick to decry it as such. This failed to assuage elite media and the radical groups that encircle them, who harnessed the tragic event to procure leftist policies.

Peaceful protests were quickly hijacked by largely juvenile mobs, who called for police defunding, censoring of “offensive” television and movie programming, and the toppling of commemorative statues. In the aftermath of Floyd’s death, a photo went viral, showing a protestor in Philadelphia whipping a statute, complete with graffiti writing on its base, stating “colonizer” and “murderer.”

It was soon confirmed that the statue was in remembrance of abolitionist Mathias Baldwin. This misappropriation illustrates the perils of rashly following the collective echoes of youthful hyper-emotionalism and its disregard of knowledge and truth.

Those who try to hide the negative aspects of a people’s culture and history hinder its ability to elevate itself and overcome its deficiencies and shortcomings. The danger that lies in following a youthful ethos is that it lacks the wisdom acquired from experience. In an effort to divorce ourselves from any reminder of shameful past transgressions, we unwittingly destroy what will ultimately enable us to realize the liberty and justice that our founders desired to achieve.

If children are our future, then we must begin to acknowledge and respect the role of parents and the wisdom of our elders, so that we may realize true success and affect authentic, lasting, positive change in our society.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS: blmmovement; elders; experience; georgefloyd; gfloydprotests; gretathunberg; lifeexperience; statues; wisdom; youthactivism; youthculture
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1 posted on 06/26/2020 11:17:29 AM PDT by Kaslin
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To: Kaslin

In popular culture, children are almost always much smarter than adults. I find that pretty annoying.

In the same way, commercials always show the Man to be an idiot, while his Very Competent Wife manages to save the day every time. Also annoying.


2 posted on 06/26/2020 11:21:51 AM PDT by ClearCase_guy (If White Privilege is real, why did Elizabeth Warren lie about being an Indian?)
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To: ClearCase_guy
When I go to the airport to go to Việt Nam Hey Pops gets on the plane but Honored Grandfather gets off the plane in Sài Gòn or Nha Trang.
I discussed husbandly behaviour and attitudes with my protégé's new husband and noticed that he changed how he had been doing things in accordance with my advice. Young folks ask me how I would do or see something before they make a decision. It does wonders for the ego of an elder American who is used to being brushed off as an ignorant old guy who can't know anything relevant to the Modern Day as in, "What do you know? this is 2020, not 1960."
3 posted on 06/26/2020 11:32:49 AM PDT by ThanhPhero
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To: Kaslin

Being old does not guarantee wisdom. Bernie Sanders is a great example of anti-wisdom . The addition of years has only made him worse.


4 posted on 06/26/2020 11:34:20 AM PDT by Nateman (If the left is not screaming, you are doing it wrong.)
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To: Kaslin

As a recognizably old man who ventures frequently out into industrial sites, I am some times embarrassed by the way folks go out of their way to take care of perceived needs. That was not the case when I was younger. They look out for me

The fact is that they give me great respect.

And it’s not for my wisdom which on turning 70 just keeps bubbling up and out.


5 posted on 06/26/2020 11:42:22 AM PDT by bert ( (KE. NP. N.C. +12) Progressives are existential American enemies)
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To: Nateman
There are two ways for our supposedly more wise elders to communicate wisdom to younger people: by telling or by showing.

In the "good old days" when technological progress was relatively slow our elders could teach us important life lessons by showing us how to do things the "right" way. We could learn patience, humility, persistence and more while simultaneously learning a trade.

Now with technological progress happening at leaps and bounds, our elder statesmen are out of their depth when it comes to the things that people do all day. So all they can do is tell the younger generation what to do. And as we can see, that goes in one ear and out the other.

It also doesn't help that old people today often pride themselves on never having grown up.

6 posted on 06/26/2020 11:48:00 AM PDT by who_would_fardels_bear
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To: ClearCase_guy

And the otherwise rugged appearing male to be a homo.


7 posted on 06/26/2020 11:49:08 AM PDT by Gene Eric ( Don't be a statist!)
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To: Kaslin

It’s part-and-parcel of the destruction of The Family.


8 posted on 06/26/2020 11:49:18 AM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: Kaslin
So we should listen to Sanders and Biden and ignore upstarts like Owens and Cruz.

Got it.

9 posted on 06/26/2020 11:53:19 AM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (Leave it to me to be holdin' the matches when the fire truck shows up & there's nobody else to blame)
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To: Kaslin
It boggles the mind that anyone over the age of 7 is stupid enough to even listen to Greta Thunberg (17).

But there are. I've met at least one. And she was dead serious about the good work that Greta is doing.


10 posted on 06/26/2020 11:58:46 AM PDT by SaveFerris (Luke 17:28 ... as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold ......)
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To: ClearCase_guy

It’s usually the White Straight (Christian) Male that is made out to be the idiot. That’s how the liberal agenda works. /preaching to the choir.


11 posted on 06/26/2020 12:00:51 PM PDT by SaveFerris (Luke 17:28 ... as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold ......)
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To: dfwgator
[It’s part-and-parcel of the destruction of The Family.]





All according to plan. His real father's plan (John 8:44) - he worked that plan, too. Quite the Manchurian Candidate from the pit of Hell.

All part of his real daddy's plan. The god of this world.
12 posted on 06/26/2020 12:02:11 PM PDT by SaveFerris (Luke 17:28 ... as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold ......)
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To: SaveFerris

Actually it was LBJ’s Work.


13 posted on 06/26/2020 12:03:27 PM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: ClearCase_guy

God Bless Danny Thomas for so much he gave to our society in his time here on this Earth, but a long time peeve of mine was always the smart-mouths of those kids on his show. If I’d have talked to my parents the way those kids did on that show I’d have been knocked across the room.


14 posted on 06/26/2020 12:06:01 PM PDT by rockinqsranch (Dems, Libs, Socialists Call 'em what you will, they all have fairies livin' in their trees)
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To: dfwgator

I can’t disagree with ya there.

I would say Barry is like the community organizer Adolph who came along to finish the work started by those responsible for the Weimar Republic.

Heh


15 posted on 06/26/2020 12:08:47 PM PDT by SaveFerris (Luke 17:28 ... as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold ......)
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To: rockinqsranch

Disney too. Seems like every Disney film had a child who disobeyed their parents and in the end was shown to be right.


16 posted on 06/26/2020 12:11:09 PM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: Kaslin

Have had discussions with several of my elderly female friends and relatives recently. We are all widows - having lost our husbands in their 70’s and 80’s.

The solution to avoid being alone in old age is for women to marry at the age of 30 to men who are 20 years old, or younger. That will reduce the numbers of lonely old women!!


17 posted on 06/26/2020 12:11:16 PM PDT by sodpoodle (Life is prickly - carry tweezers)
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To: Gene Eric
Is it just my impression but are all the male actors in Progressive Insurance commercials either homosexuals or metrosexuals? (I always change channels as quickly as possible when one of them appears).

Already Art Linkletter in Kids Say the Darndest Things, published in the late 1950s, complained about how TV shows portrayed American fathers.

18 posted on 06/26/2020 12:20:33 PM PDT by Verginius Rufus
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To: Kaslin

these people think that future folks will be kind to them

how mistaken they will be


19 posted on 06/26/2020 12:46:18 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not Averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: Kaslin

the radical rioters of today

will be the ones whose statues are being toppled over tomorrow

mark it


20 posted on 06/26/2020 12:47:04 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not Averse to Going Bronson.)
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