[sparklite2]

effeminate but are happily married to women, and are fathers.

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You mean like Obama? A repressed homosexual
will show female gestures, language, facile
expressions and more. Yet not be consciously
be attracted to other men, which is bizarre,
unless you can wrap your head around the notion
of there being such a thing as unconscious
attraction.

[Jamestown1630]

No; there are lots of men whom you may think are gay, but are not. There have been a couple in my circle - and even the gays’ own ‘gaydar’ had it wrong.

(I’m not concerned with ‘repression’ or whatever else may be going on in an individual’s inner psychology. I just care how they conduct themselves in society.)