We almost all had single moms so no need to be defensive.
It doesn’t matter why the mom is single, it’s always bad for kids.
I don’t think I’m being defensive. I was agreeing with you, or so I thought.
Yes I agree it’s not best for your kids but what do you do if it’s out of your control??
Husband dies. Or he’s a Jack A$$ and leaves. It ain’t good for the kids but some women have to deal with it.
In the mean time....”We almost all had single moms” HUH?