The scary thing is how it seems like many Japanese men have become... “feminized” is the only term I can come up with, perhaps to a greater extent than Western men, although you even see it with many Japanese-American young men.
That sort of thing is why so many women go for the “Bad Boy”; you see white women throwing themselves at black gangstas and Asian women throwing themselves at jockish white guys.
I suspect that it is not necessarily that many women want “Bad Boys”... they just want real men, and “Bad Boys” are the closest many of them will get to real men. Its the result of de-masculinizing, metrosexualizing, feminizing, feminist castration.
Now the feminists (at least the non-lesbians among them) got what they wanted and now they have “Buyer’s Remorse”. My opinion is “You broke it, you bought it.”
You got it right. There's a news item today about a woman who couldn't find anyone to marry her, she became 40 and married herself. That's a feminist that got what she wanted.
Oh I know all of that I see it in the mainline culture and heck I even been seeing it in the Anime I watch, they seemed to have lost some of the manly touch like the Gundam Animes for example in the 80’s and early 90’s which had it compared to now which is just the opposite.