The answer is simple: these young women are
-- inexperienced, but THINK they know everything,
-- arrogant, because men have drooled over them for eons, parents and friends have REPEATEDLY told them how LUCKY they were to be so attractive
-- brought up to believe that children are EXPECTED of them as part of their female identity
-- generally, through no fault of their own, lacking in the knowledge of WHAT they want, that is, little guidance.
They DO grow up, some sooner than later, and turn into normal, emotionally balanced, contributing women, wives, mothers, aunties and grandmas.
The mixed messages were too confusing at first and most had parents who cleared up confusion.
Right- and I feel sorry for their children.
Some of them will ALWAYS be too young to have children.
Spoiled and immature is not the way to raise children