What does a Hot guy do when his wife gets old and fat? Alma let herself go, and when a woman does that she should expect this sort of thing. It’s the way of the world, he’s an attractive man...yada yada.
I find him singularly un-attractive and un-sexy....homely plain is more descriptive, I would say.
The uniform helped him a little...but then, a uniform generally does.
For instance, take General Petraeus....please.
Leni