Let me be clear. If the power is not delegated to the Fedgov by the Constitution/Amendments then the Fedgov don't have a say in it.
Gay Marriage AND straight Marriage. Neither are mentioned. The Fedgov has no say.
Case Closed!
Of course NOW that isn't the case because SCOTUS has ruled using the so-called Equal Protection Clause.
Now BOTH are forever ingrained into the DNA of the Fedgov.
So you place no blame whatsoever on homosexual activists who have been agitating for same sex marriage for a long time? Via courts and various kinds of legislation? They’re pure as the driven snow? Only evil people who don’t want same sex marriage forced on the whole country are the evil ones?