I do not give a crap what happened upwards of 100 years ago. This is 2013, where such actions would be considered illegal (unless the parents of the 13-year-old signed off on it).
If you think it is cool for adults to boff kids, please go somewhere else, like Daily Kos.
By this definition, I was in a long-term relationship starting in 1969 when we were both in high school. I was 18 and she was 14. This continued until we both graduated from college and got married. Would you rather we be married for what amounted to 25.5 years, fostered 2 children and 4 grandchildren, or should I still be in jail?