"You axing me to act like Whitey?"
Seriously though, as my grandmother used to say, "if you don't want to be disappointed, quit expecting others to live up to your expectations. You focus on being the best you can be and leave others to their own devices."
Or as I interpret that, "quit your beatching and get to work."
On the flipside,
thwarting the culture and intentionally violating the norms of the culture in which you live will not lead to success.
The whole rebellion to “white culture” has done nothing to further the cause of the black population as a whole, though a very few have enriched themselves doing so.