Hmm.
Say there was a natural disaster and you had family members who could not fend for themselves and depended on you for survival.
Say the natural disaster was just beginning and you had no idea how things would turn out.
Then say that a random stranger showed up at your doorstep and said: "You don't know me, but I have two small kids and they were swept away into the flood. I'm not out there swimming in the flood looking for them right now, because I was hoping you would do that for me instead. So, do me a favor and abandon your family in the iddle of this disaster and go take care of my family now, please."
Then say that you decided from now on to stop posting without thinking.
Yes, you are correct that I should have read more than just this one article.
If the situation were as listed in this one, where the woman asked for help and was turned away with her children, then I would still say that the person who turned them away was wrong.
I know if it were me and I answered the door and a woman with two small children were needing my help I would give it. My family would make sure of that.
I’ll hold judgement until all the facts are out.