A tree falls on my house.
I hire a contractor to fix my roof.
This contractor spends the next few months talking with me, planning and is being a really nice guy, but the roof is still not fixed.
I will go out and hire another contractor.
“This contractor spends the next few months talking with me, planning and is being a really nice guy, but the roof is still not fixed.”
That’s a good analogy but you forgot that he spent your down payment on lunch for his crew then released a million termites onto your roof.