Matthews blew it and it cost her and six other agents their lives because of her sloppiness and desire to prove and expiate herself. Had she followed long standing procedures none of this would have happened. It’s obvious the guy wasn’t trustworthy and should have been thoroughly vetted, including a physical search before coming onto the base. I’m sorry to see these deaths and even more sorry that three great kids are without a mom (six other families are without as well), but the harsh lesson needs to be learned. She didn’t belong there and neither does any white woman. It’s a horrible affront to Islam and Muslims understand this and we’d better too.
What you say is probably true but I would not blame her. There is a reason that women should be kept out of war zones and no it is not chauvinistic to have that attitude. Women should be kept out because of our respect for them. It is natural in our society to desire to protect them. When it becomes unnatural that is when our society falls apart. The fault for the tragedy lies with feminism which put her there in the first place.