Good! There's not enough of us doing that. I have a son who doesn't realize his importance in his childrens lives. We came to verbal blows yesterday. He isn't speaking to me today. He'll get over it.
There are some good articles on the net that you could review and give to him.
Most men feel extremely pressured to earn a good living; keep the wife happy; keep the boss happy; stay healthy; provide for the kids . . .
failing to understand that
THEMSELVES—TIME, AFFECTION, LISTENING
are more valuable than a LOT of other things, to the child . . . and to enabling the child to succeed, feel worthwhile and stay out of prison.
I’ve been known to tell some clueless parents that they were doing an excellent job of preparing their kids for prison.