I have to spend the holidays with the in laws, one is a flaming militant gay. I won’t be holding any punches this year. The good news is I doubt they will be inviting me back.
Now that hetero’s are forced to sleep next to homo’s, what happens with the transvestites? Do they go in the woman’s or the men’s dorm?
“I have to spend the holidays with the in laws, one is a flaming militant gay. I won’t be holding any punches this year. The good news is I doubt they will be inviting me back.”
That always works for me, with in-laws, co-workers and acquaintances. I sometimes read (like in a post up above here somewhere) “we should engage them” ... well ... you do it. I just let em know what I think and the engagement is off. No pun intended. The wife gets a little ticked off once in a while, especially if it’s a big gathering or a family thing, but screw em ... if they bring it up, I’ll bring em down. If you don’t say it, it festers anyway.
And “they won’t invite me back” holds no threat to me listening to some prancing fairy discuss his shrink’s opinions on whatever the hell is the topic of conversation.
You may think you’re joking, but the transvestite agenda is next. The queer agenda never gains a foothold but what the transvestite lobby follows, and I am not kidding.
” Do they go in the woman’s or the men’s dorm?”
A friend of mine said he was buy-sexual. If he wanted sex he had to buy it!
One of your in-laws (father in law or your mother in law) is a militant flaming gay?
I'll bet you ment your wife's brother...
I won’t be holding any punches this year.
Maybe people here are not aware of it, but the gay organizations and web sites have been encouraging gay and lesbians to "start a dialog with their families" over these issues when the opportunity presents itself. Like say, at a family Holiday get-together...
I think it is dirty pool to bring that kind of stuff up at a family gathering in order to try to push a political agenda, so it seems to me that a bit of turn-about is fair play.
So let's see if we can use some of their techniques against them if the "other side" is insensitive enough to bring up the issue:
Control the language - Always use the term "homosexual", never "gay" or "lesbian" in your discussions. Getting you to use the terms gay/lesbian is a subtle form of gaining control.
Identify allies - Who is on your side? Maybe figure out or find out ahead of time. (If the flaming militant gay bugs you chances are you are not alone).
Generally gays have a lot of drama in their lives. Try to find out their past and latest dramas and compare it to your relationship with their daughter / sister if they try to take the moral high ground.
One other thing - You be the one in control. Let the other person be the one to "go off" on you.
Don't get too emotional or make threats to give the flaming militant gay person a reason to call 911 and a story to tell the police to get you arrested.
The good news is I doubt they will be inviting me back.
Not if you stand up to the flaming militant gay bully who is pushing his agenda on the family. I would think they would invite you back and he would avoid you after you stand up to him.
Why count yourself already defeated? Why assume you will lose? Maybe the flaming militant gay is the one who won't be coming back.
Again, try to identify who would be your allies on your side. Is everyone already on this person's side? If so, then I would feel a sore throat coming on and stay away - you don't need to be around that environment.
Now that hetero’s are forced to sleep next to homo’s, what happens with the transvestites? Do they go in the woman’s or the men’s dorm?
If you are talking about civilian life, the legally male = using male facilities no matter how one is dressed. Unless one is in Massachusetts, they have a state law that says you use the bathroom you are presenting (dressed) as.
If you are talking about the military, simply put male and female grooming standards apply. If transsexual, the Gender Identity Disorder is a psych diagnosis and gets one a medical discharge.