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President Obama: It Gets Better
Posted by Brian Bond on October 21, 2010 at 11:30 PM EDT
Recently, several young people have taken their own lives after being bullied for being gay or perceived as being gay by their peers. Their deaths are shocking and heartbreaking tragedies. No one should have to endure relentless harassment or tormenting. No one should ever feel so alone or desperate that they feel they have nowhere to turn. We each share a responsibility to protect our young people. And we also have an obligation to set an example of respect and kindness, regardless of our differences.
This is personal to me. When I was a young adult, I faced the jokes and taunting that too many of our youth face today, and I considered suicide as a way out. But I was fortunate. One of my co-workers recognized that I was hurting, and I soon confided in her. She cared enough to push me to seek help. She saved my life. I will always be grateful for her compassion and support the same compassion and support that so many kids need today.
In the wake of these terrible tragedies, thousands of Americans have come together to share their stories of hope and encouragement for LGBT youth who are struggling as part of the It Gets Better Project. Their messages are simple: no matter how difficult or hopeless life may seem when youre a young person whos been tormented by your peers or feels like you dont fit in: life will get better.
President Obama is committed to ending bullying, harassment and discrimination in all its forms in our schools and communities. Thats why he recorded this message.
Last year, the Departments of Education and Health and Human Services joined forces with four other departments to create a federal task force on bullying. In August 2010, the task force staged the first-ever National Bullying Summit, bringing together 150 top state, local, civic, and corporate leaders to begin mapping out a national plan to end bullying. The task force also launched a new website, www.bullyinginfo.org, which brings all the federal resources on bullying together in one place for the first time ever.
If youre a young person whos been bullied or harassed by your peers, or youre a parent or teacher who knows a young person being bullied or harassed, here are a few resources that can help you:
The Trevor Project
The Trevor Project is determined to end suicide among LBGTQ youth by providing resources and a nationwide, 24 hour hotline. If you are considering suicide or need help, call: 866-4-U-TREVOR (866-488-7386).
BullyingInfo.org
BullyingInfo.org is a project of the Interagency Working Group on Youth Programs (IWGYP) focused on providing tools and resources for youth, parents, teachers and mental health providers to prevent and address bullying.
It Gets Better Project
President Obamas video is just one of thousands of videos submitted by people across the country to inspire and encourage LGBT youth who are struggling. You can watch more videos at ItGetsBetterProject.com.
For even more information and resources visit:
Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN)
Matthew Shepard Foundation
Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG)
A transcript of the Presidents video is here.
Brian Bond is Deputy Director of the Office of Public Engagement
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Remarks of President Barack Obama
Video for the It Gets Better Project
Washington, DC
Like all of you, I was shocked and saddened by the deaths of several young people who were bullied and taunted for being gay, and who ultimately took their own lives. As a parent of two daughters, it breaks my heart. Its something that just shouldnt happen in this country.
Weve got to dispel the myth that bullying is just a normal rite of passage that its some inevitable part of growing up. Its not. We have an obligation to ensure that our schools are safe forall of our kids. And to every young person out there you need to know that if youre in trouble, there are caring adults who can help.
I dont know what its like to be picked on for being gay. But I do know what its like to grow up feeling that sometimes you dont belong. Its tough. And for a lot of kids, the sense of being alone or apart I know can just wear on you. And when youre teased or bullied, it can seem like somehow you brought it on yourself for being different, or for not fitting in with everybody else.
But what I want to say is this. You are not alone. You didnt do anything wrong. You didnt do anything to deserve being bullied. And there is a whole world waiting for you, filled with possibilities. There are people out there who love you and care about you just the way you are. And so, if you ever feel like because of bullying, because of what people are saying, that youre getting down on yourself, youve got to make sure to reach out to people you trust. Whether its your parents, teachers, folks that you know care about you just the way you are. Youve got to reach out to them, dont feel like youre in this by yourself.
The other thing you need to know is, things will get better. And more than that, with time youre going to see that your differences are a source of pride and a source of strength. Youll look back on the struggles youve faced with compassion and wisdom. And thats not just going to serve you, but it will help you get involved and make this country a better place.
It will mean that youll be more likely to help fight discrimination not just against LGBT Americans, but discrimination in all its forms. It means youll be more likely to understand personally and deeply why its so important that as adults we set an example in our own lives and that we treat everybody with respect. That we are able to see the world through other peoples eyes and stand in their shoes that we never lose sight of what binds us together.
As a nation were founded on the belief that all of us are equal and each of us deserves the freedom to pursue our own version of happiness; to make the most of our talents; to speak our minds; to not fit in; most of all, to be true to ourselves. Thats the freedom that enriches all of us. Thats what America is all about. And every day, it gets better.
“Recently, several young people have taken their own lives after being bullied for being gay or perceived as being gay by their peers.”
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Whaaa-Whaaaa! I am sick to death of hearing about this whining that goes on with every “Gay” death. SO WHAT, cindy? People kill themselves everyday!
Straight people, old people, sick people, abused people, homeless people, Veterans, depressed people kill themselves! I could go on and on. People kill themselves!
It’s not about “GAY” people. It’s about “PEOPLE” who kill themselves.
Fewer than a half-dozen suicides in all of the United States is a very small number. There are probably many more children who have died in, for instance, swimming pools, during that period of time. Do we need to have a program in school focused around the dangers of swimming pools?
The thrust here is not really to fix bullying, but to get the concept of homosexuality into our schools at a very early age. Bullying is just a nice cover because, who can be in favor of bullying? Bullying is a bad thing. Pretty much everyone agrees to that. But the idea is to imprint on impressionable young minds the idea of homosexual acts even before these children even think about sex or sexuality.
There is quite obviously a genetic predisposition to homosexuality, just as there is for alcoholism. Not every person with the genetic predisposition toward alcoholism will become an alcoholic just as not every person with the genetic predisposition toward homosexuality will become a homosexual.
There is an interaction between one’s genetic predisposition and the choices a person makes while his psyche is being formed. The more often the concept of homosexuality is introduced to adolescents, the more likely those with the genetic predisposition will be affected.
If some sort of a bullying program were offered, but all references to homosexuality were left out, some factions would become much less militant about this.
Given the current state of education, is anyone learning how to read, write or do mathematics anymore?