I’d rather want to have a Bristol than a Meghan for daughter.
Ideals are not to be judged by how well you have adhered to them - we all make mistakes and fall short. But if you don't have any ideals or standards, you end up like - well, a ghetto baby mama or a bitter harridan like Meghan.
An interesting fact is that research in cemeteries in New England showed that a large number of people in the 17th and early 18th centuries must have been conceived before the marriage dates of their parents. However, their parents did marry and did produce stable families that shaped these people.
Things happen. But ideals are important, and you do the best you can - and if you fall down, you get up again and try to strive.