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Deep in Debt, and Now Deep in Worry (pls feel sorry for the irresponsible)
NYT ^ | 01/25/09 | BEN STEIN

Posted on 01/25/2009 3:52:00 AM PST by TigerLikesRooster

Deep in Debt, and Now Deep in Worry

By BEN STEIN

NOT long ago, a woman in California called me for advice. She is divorced, with two children, and has a series of interlocking financial problems.

She lives in a lovely home in a stylish inland enclave. It has an interest-only mortgage of about $2.2 million that requires a payment of $12,000 a month, very roughly. It was last appraised at $2.7 million, but who knows if it’s now worth anything remotely close to that price.

The woman, whom I’ve known since she was a teenager, has no job or other remunerative employment. She has a former husband, an entrepreneur whose business has suffered recently. He pays her $20,000 a month, of which roughly half is alimony and half child support. The alimony is scheduled to stop this summer.

She has a wealthy beau who pays her credit card bills and other incidentals, but she is thinking of telling him she is through with him. She has no savings and has refinanced her home repeatedly, always adding to indebtedness and then putting the money into a shop she owns that has never come close to earning a dime. Now she is up all night worrying about money. “Terrified,” as she put it. She wanted me to tell her what to do.

What could I say? I did the best I could, but I had to tell her that she was on very thin ice.

Ever since, I’ve been thinking of the troubles of this sweet woman, consumed with worry about money.

(Excerpt) Read more at nytimes.com ...


TOPICS: Business/Economy; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: benstein; financialcrisis; irresponsibility
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To: TigerLikesRooster
Damn...I thought Obama was going to help these poor people. Unless the gub'mint can step up with a $20,000 per month relief check, she's probably going to be forced to keep her boyfriend and that would probably suck for her.

If the government can use trillions of dollars of our money to bail out banks and car companies and such, why can't we give this poor woman a mere $20,000 a month?

It's heartless I tell you, heartless. And it's all Obama's fault.

61 posted on 01/25/2009 10:22:06 AM PST by SamAdams76 (I am 36 days away from outliving John F. Kennedy)
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To: yazoo
Let’s see, she took huge financial risks to live beyond her means. Depended on the belief of a never ending stream of money from x-husband and boyfriend, tries to run a store that never makes money, and has an interest only loan on a 2.7 million dollar house. Financial planning at its best.

If she didn't have the upper class connections, she'd be called a bimbo.

62 posted on 01/25/2009 10:28:54 AM PST by GOPJ (Corrupt business decisions get bailed-out. Why should I play by the rules?FReeper-pierrem15)
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To: SamAdams76
Damn...I thought Obama was going to help these poor people. Unless the gub'mint can step up with a $20,000 per month relief check, she's probably going to be forced to keep her boyfriend and that would probably suck for her.

I'm surprised "the bimbo queen" didn't have money with Madoff - fits the drama... Is she too ditzy to fail? Should taxpayers step in when the boyfriend bolts?

63 posted on 01/25/2009 10:34:05 AM PST by GOPJ (Corrupt business decisions get bailed-out. Why should I play by the rules?FReeper-pierrem15)
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To: Travis McGee

She’s already a hooker, one boyfriend who pays her credit cards. She just needs to broaden her clientele, accepting more clients.


64 posted on 01/25/2009 10:45:10 AM PST by kalee (01/20/13 The end of an error.)
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To: TigerLikesRooster; All

Good, no. Great! I’m a big fan of the Stein.

It would do everybody some good to read this... the entire article. Thanks for posting it. I wouldn’t have gotten to see it otherwise.


65 posted on 01/25/2009 7:49:45 PM PST by Gordon Greene (www.fracturedrepublic.com - Welcome to the brave new world...)
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To: TigerLikesRooster
Stein, of course, was being facetious about the bimbo.

Guess he needed some filler to make his, by now, stale personal crusade stretch to 1000 words: rich people waste too much money, they should be taxed more; if they grew up respecting money and what they have, they would be satisfied with less.

yitbos

66 posted on 01/26/2009 1:16:27 AM PST by bruinbirdman ("Those who control language control minds.")
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To: Hoosier Catholic Momma; CottonBall; TenthAmendmentChampion; Chickensoup

“She wanted me to tell her what to do.”

His answer should have been simple. Hey lady, start ACTING YOUR WAGE!

If you would like to be added to the “Live like no one else, so that you can LIVE like no one else” list, feel free to Freepmail me.


67 posted on 01/26/2009 12:41:45 PM PST by CSM (IÂ’m jubilant! Now that the Dems are completely in charge, we can FINALLY blame THEM for everything!)
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To: raybbr
Why should anything but consumables be included in there? Why aren't taxes included?

Excellent questions.
68 posted on 01/26/2009 5:44:39 PM PST by CottonBall
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