No one...but you're preaching to the choir here.
Ask the feminists. Objectively, guys are chumps to get married or become fathers. Asking them to 'take one for the team,' doesn't change that.
But approaching wedding anniversary #20 puts me in a somewhat different place...
Not as much as you might think...I'll have my 15th (second marriage) this fall.
I think you two have swerved into an undeniable truth.
The left’s overarching goal is the destruction of the family.
Look at everything they do, everything contributes to the destruction of the traditional family with the nurturing supportive wife, the protective providing husband, and children who are under the authority of both.