Adding this to the “Wimmen ‘R Evil” file.
I think the word you are looking for is "Useful".
My 1st wife was great until she decided to trade me for a newer model and try to keep Everything. My 2nd wife passed 3 years ago from breast cancer after 2 years together. I'd be very happy to be struck by lightning a 3rd time but don't think it will ever happen again. Not all women are evil. And I don't think it's wrong for a man to consult his wife about things that could affect them both. The big thing is to choose wisely when you choose.