Ozaukeemom, I think they are a fad and at 46 I personally am proud of my clear skin...not marked up with ink. I don’t think tatoos are cute on a woman or girl. Just my opinion. The only time I like them is when they are on a military guy. But, I am not the norm, I guess.
from a shrink:
What causes someone to decide to have a tattoo?
A desire to fit in with others, to belong. To find your own sense of belonging by superficially changing your exterior rather than your internal feelings.
My suggestion......make some new friends.