[cuz_it_aint_their_money]

Needing the extra space to get my mom’s wheelchair in between the cars so she can get into it, is the reason why we use her handicap permit.

And that is exactly why I feel that the "Blue Spots" should be limited to those that need extra space to get in and out of a wheelchair.
Perhaps Texas has the right idea. "Blue Spots" for those that need extra wide spaces for wheelchairs, scooters, etc. and "Red Spots" on normal width spaces for those with other mobility problems.
Course, you will never satisfy some of the folks on this thread. Their attitude seems to be "How dare you not take pity on me! I'm handicapped cuz I got ____________! So you WILL let me do whatever I please! and NOT say anything to the contrary!"

[camle]

"How dare you not take pity on me! "

who's asking for pity? from what I read on this thread HC people are merely asking not to be judged by stereotypes and ignorance.

I haven't heard anything about pity.