I didn’t win one. The ex-gay thing has been a hoax from day one. Homosexuality is a phenotype, not a choice.
homosexual is a description of behaviours and activities, not of a state of being.
It is like saying someone is a “shirt wearer”. It is silly. People where shirts or they don’t. Wearing shirts is not a state of being.
Sexual arousal is a response to stimuli both suggested and initiated for that matter. Stroke a penis enough and it will ejaculate. Stimulate the female genitalia correctly and it will initiate an orgasmic wave in the body of a women.
There is no “orientation”. There may be preferences about who one is rolling around with but there is no orientation... except innies and outies.