Substantiate those claims with evidence. If you can then you would being enlightening me.
The evidence you seek is available, to the extent that such a thing is possible, from voting patterns.
Polls on your issues (abortion, border control, deportation, and gays) are misleading because responding to a poll doesn't cause anything to happen.
Our people are a kindly and generous tribe. They elect leaders to act on their behalf.
Twenty-seven years of electing Presidents rhetorically committed to ending abortion have yielded two (perhaps four) Supremes who would reverse Roe v. Wade. It has also given us Souter, Kennedy, and O'Connor. There are no Justices who would outlaw abortion as a violation of the Fifth and Fourteenth Amendments.
At the border, the wholesale breaking of laws bothers our people, for sure. But elect someone who would do something to Juan who cuts the grass or Maria who changes the diapers? Forget about it.
And as far as the gay crazies go, it's apparant that in that arena, our people have had enough, at least with regard to marriage. But "active tolerance" with civil unions and gay propaganda in schools appears overwhelmingly popular.
The People call the shots in this country. The House, in particular, and the state and local elections, tell you everything about what the People support, and don't support.
And the news is not good, as you know. But it's evidence that's as good as you're going to get.