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To: presidio9
I do the butt whoop approach... First I look at the monster in a serious look (knowing inside I love him, no matter what)... Then I point (no words) towards the bedroom (or somewhere private if in a public arena)... Then I do the 3 question + answer thing, just so he know what exactly he did wrong. I say drop the drawers... and after 1-5 wacks (depending on the crime in question)... (much snot and tears in this section, omitted for your convience)... I tell him not to do it again and that it is forgotten for now.

Instant punishment, instand forgiveness after that punishment, no grudges... happy well behaved kids. Works for us...

46 posted on 01/09/2007 3:50:20 PM PST by LowOiL (Paul wrote, "Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil" (Rom. 12:9))
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To: LowOiL

"Time out" and "removing privileges" are of the same ilk, and are basically ineffective because they are essentially bargaining/bribing tools. There is something material to give and take, and worse, you are giving a non-thinking little child a choice when they aren't mature enough to do such things. Not that you can't do the "withdrawal" concept many times reasonably, but to have it as the prime tool has to be ineffective. (This article doesn't tell us that specifically, but I think we can read between the lines - and we see it every day.)


61 posted on 01/09/2007 4:29:30 PM PST by the OlLine Rebel (Common sense is an uncommon virtue.)
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