And further more,......about that toilet seat thing,....
What would the women rather do about it, put it down or clean it off? Even as a guy, I'd rather put it down when appropriate. And there are plenty of disgusting urinals out there too.
I was in a rest room on a 'military facility' where the cockaroaches were bigger than my shoes. They weren't scared or nothing. just sat there staring... gathering to attack. they were even in the unrinals, sinks, etc.. Musta been fifty of the buggers.
I got the hell out of there before they decided to give chase, and to this day I refuse to return to that building.
But I didn't go far enough in to determine whether the seats were up or down.