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It is idiotic to attempt to reform the government schools, and this is what this woman is attempting to do.
The **solution** is to work toward the abolition of government schools. In a completely private system this idiotic mother would either find a private school that upheld her religious beliefs, or she would do as she does in other areas of her private life. She would compromise.
No matter what the government does in this case, either allow or disallow Harry, the government will uphold the religious beliefs of some while trashing those of others. This is true, not only in this case, but for hundreds of other issues as well.
Government schools and the First Amendment can not co-exist.
Solution: Begin the process of privatizing universal K-12 education.