I wish I had time to really get into some of these discussions. Sigh.
What most people accept as Christianity is quite narrow; ONLY Jesus Christ, ONLY the Bible, ONLY certain names of God. Hinduism is a broad path. The narrow exclusivity that is currently accepted as Christianity is foreign to the Vedic path. One great Hindu teacher said a few decades ago to worship Jesus and Krishna together, and I know many people who do just that. I'm not afraid to read the Bible, why are people who read the Bible afraid to read the Bhagavad Gita? Especially since one can find the same truth in many places in both, just couched in different language or examples.
Fanaticism is the enemy of freedom, and without freedom, there can be no love, only blind fanaticism.
No one will be "saved" unless God calls him to that path. And if God should call he certainly doesn't need a missionary to help him save anyone.
God does what he will. He is that that he is. 'Christianity' should learn, not teach. Its arrogance can do nothing for India but divide and cause chaos.
I do not agree that a missionary has the right to enter a convert's home and destroy the idols. That is private property. A true convert would destroy the idol on his own volition. I also would say that a person grows in their faith and knowledge of Jesus so that they may accept Jesus's Lordship one day but require some time before realizing they must destroy the idols they have.
I do not condone a foreign missionary breaking the idols belonging to someone else. I condemn such behavior.
Christian missionaries do not have, should not have and never have had, although some have wrongly thought they did, a divine mandate to arbitrate over a person's conscience. That is the province of God alone and He jealously holds that responsibility to Himself.
A preacher is one who intends to drag you like an overbearing nanny, over the path he "thinks" is the true path of sprituality. I disagree with this definition of a preacher. A preacher is a person who exposes the Word of God to a congregation. It is a very high calling. To be sure, a preacher is just a human and capable of error. That is why each individual must search the Scripture for himself and see if the teaching conforms to God's Holy Revelation. But a preacher is to help point the way to what the Scripture says. He has a responsibility to be correct. God holds him in strict accountability for leading others astray.
The discovery of the path is not a matter of one's own conscience. It is a work of God's Holy Spirit.