[linda_22003]

I can understand that, yes. A reporter's background can matter when it comes to the reporting of a story, and I concede the point in your example.

What I "get", mostly, is the urge for a very hot shower with a great deal of soap and a scrub brush, when you call me "dear" (shuddering).

[Antoninus]

What I "get", mostly, is the urge for a very hot shower with a great deal of soap and a scrub brush, when you call me "dear" (shuddering).

Imagine that I look like Jerrold Nadler if that makes you feel any better... ;)