How about gay politics? They're trying to bring down the heterosexual institution of marriage, you know. Have you heard?
Your saying you don't have a problem with gays is like my saying I don't have a problem with Irish people (I'm half Irish).......and then we find out my Irish relatives have been giving money to the Sinn Fein for the Provos. Which some of them actually were. Big problem with that.
Or do you rally around your friends and family members, like they want you to do, and say, "well, you know, the Provos are really right!!"
That's what PFLAG is all about, as are GLAAD, Lambda Legal, the HRC, and this NGO mentioned in the article.