It's a puzzle to you because you can't respond with anything of substance. You can't even post anything that would indicate to lurkers that you understand the problem.
Twist in the wind. Question people's motives. Just don't respond to the question.
It is a question of substance. It has nothing to do with how you feel or whether I'm a nice person. It's a real question, and you have no response other than to claim mistreatment.
Well, and to be alert for your mistreatment of others, which is what attracted my attn to you in the first place.