Please get your child out of school as fast as you can and homeschool at least for awhile while you work on the esteem. Why should he have to put up with that? I think you can give him the gift of life by homeschooling. I am not a big advocate of homeschooling, but your son needs some time out to learn in a loving environment. Just my opinion. I wish you and your son the best of luck.
thanks, I'm debating that heavily right now and will likely take my son out and home school him after a few more expert opinions, lol. I plan to talk to his teacher, a close friend who is a special education teacher, and GOD! I think my son has suffered enough and I'm tired of it!